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Do I need to send Save the Date cards?

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In one word, Yes.

Save the Date cards are becoming more common place especially if you are getting married at a busy time of year like Christmas or Summer Holiday; they are expected out of courtesy. The pre-invitation card let guests know that they will be invited to your wedding and the date and venue it is taking place. By sending these out a year in advance it means that the people you love and want to celebrate your wedding with will be able to arrange to be at your wedding but still make other arrangements, such as booking their summer holidays, so they don’t clash. Your guests will also be able to book their travel and accommodation for the wedding in advance and save money.

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Some couples only send Save the Date cards to their daytime guests, others choose to send them to everyone on their guests list. Make sure you have finalised your guests list before sending them out, once they have been sent you MUST send a formal invite closer to the day! Be clear on the save the date who you are inviting so there is no confusion.

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Bridesmaid Dresses 101

  • Pick the colour and fabric that you like, but consider letting your bridesmaids wear different styles that suit them. This way both the bride and the bridesmaids should be happy. Bridesmaid Dresses
  • When looking for dresses try to only go with one or two bridesmaids at first, once you have narrowed down the selection to 2 or 3 options, you can get everyone together to try them on. Trying on Bridesmaid Dresses
  • Ask the bridesmaids opinion, but make the final decision yourself….you’re never going to please everyone and your bridesmaids should be happy if you’re happy.
  • Place all bridesmaids orders at the same time and in the same place to make sure they are all made from the same roll of fabric.
  • Allow at least 3 months for delivery and alteration, you don’t want to panic about them arriving in time.
  • Don’t forget shoes, jewellery and handbags.Bridesmaid shoes
  • Flower girls don’t have to match the bridesmaids, but they should complement the overall look.Flowergirl
  • Pick age appropriate dresses for all.
November 24, 2014

10 Things Every Bride Should Have.

  1. A dress with WOW. Your dress should reflect your personality, make your feel confident and give you butterflies everytime you see it.
    Mori Lee Style 1910

    Mori Lee Style 1910

  2. The perfect shoe. Make sure they are comfortable as well as stylish….you have to wear them all day. Don’t choose something you can’t dance in, if you kick your shoes off later on, your lovely dress is going to drag on the floor.
    Manolo Blahnik Hangisi Blue Embellished Shoes

    Manolo Blahnik Hangisi Blue Embellished Shoes

  3. Jewellery. You should choose something that compliments your dress but doesn’t take the attention away from it. Swarovski crystals and pearls are always timeless classics.
    Valentine Necklace by Caradan Designs

    Valentine Necklace by Caradan Designs

  4. Flowers. Pick flowers you love, not what you think you should have.
    Bouquet by The Design Studio

    Bouquet by The Design Studio

  5. Something old, new,borrowed and blue. Try and find items that mean something to you and you can keep.
    Something old, new, borrowed and blue by Betty's Glamour Box

    Something old, new, borrowed and blue by Betty’s Glamour Box

  6. Time with your husband/wife to be. Spend time together and ban the subject of the wedding….don’t let it take over. Go to the cinema, bowling or for a meal. Spend time remembering why you are marrying each other. Couple
  7. Quirkiness. Incorporate something you and your partner love into the wedding that is unique to you.Dog at Wedding
  8. A selfish moment. Remember that this is you and your partners wedding. Don’t do things because someone said you should, do things the way you both want and don’t worry about everyone else. You are entitled to one Bridezilla moment! Bridezilla
  9. Pamper time. Whether you book in for a spa day or just relax in  your PJ’s with a face pack and a soppy film…make sure you have time to relax and look after yourself. Pamper
  10. Fun. Planning your wedding should be a fun experience. If you start to feel stressed, do something fun and remember you only get to do this once, so enjoy every last moment of it! Bewildered Bride

Getting Married Abroad – A Guide from The Boutique Wedding Co.

So for years you’ve been dreaming about a destination wedding that’ll be unique, stylish, romantic and fun. Incorporating all of the things you love most in this world. Your closest family & friends, your favourite location, decorated to perfection with wonderful music, delicious food and drinks and the making of unforgettable memories!

It’s guaranteed that most people you invite will be over the moon and see this as a great opportunity for a once in a lifetime holiday with amazing family & friends! For some others, many questions will come to mind: how much will it cost, how much time off work will they need. If they have children, are the kids invited and does the wedding fall within the school holidays? Then there is researching the flights, hotels and what to wear!  So many things to consider in their already busy, busy lives!

So, how to make this all happen easily, stress free and without upsetting your beloved guests? Just follow this guide from The Boutique Wedding Co. and bring your dream of a perfect destination wedding to life!! Ensuring an amazing, unforgettable experience for you and your guests.

Plan Ahead

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There is no question about it, planning ahead when you are getting married abroad is the best advice you can receive. Wedding venues, photographers and accommodation can all get booked up 12-18 months in advance. There’s passport arrangements to make, holiday time from work, booking flights and all of the suppliers are just a few things you’ll need to handle well in advance of your big day. Send your save-the-dates out as soon as you confirm your wedding date, possibly 12-10 months in advance and ensure your invitations go out at least 6 months prior.

Review Your Guest List Early

You must make a head count before deciding on your venue and location. You might think only a few people can make it and then be happily surprised that everyone wants to share your special day with you. The numbers will affect the decisions you make, including which venue you will chose and your wedding planner will not be able to cost up anything for you with out some estimated numbers.

Hire a Wedding Planner

I know what your thinking, of course I would tell you to hire a planner but really I only have your best interests at heart! Planning a wedding on home ground is complicated enough, planning a wedding from abroad is even more so! Do you have between 100-200 hours to spend planning your wedding in your chosen destination? Well if not you certainly need to consider employing a professional who knows the lay of the land, has established relationships with wedding venues and suppliers and can speak the language. A wedding planner will manage all of the elements of your wedding you wish, involving you as much as you choose. They will save you time, money and stress.

Choosing Your Wedding Location

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Your wedding location will determine not only the style and look (rustic romance, bohemian beachy, boutique sophistication), but also the travel, time and budget required for your wedding abroad. Select a wedding location and a venue that you feel reflects you, overflowing with character, natural beauty and plenty of outside space for your celebration and it should always have a Plan B for potential bad weather. The venue should be representative of the area as well as being about what you love, your style, your interests and passions. Think about the time of year you are getting married and check the average weather for that period. You don’t want to plan a Caribbean Wedding for Hurricane Season and likewise a wedding mid August in Spain could be unbearably hot, especially for your older guests!

Visit Your Destination Prior to Your Wedding Day

If you are planning your wedding yourself take at least one planning trip and ideally two or three to your chosen destination. If you do decide to hire a wedding planner, a Skype or Telephone meeting with them will be your first port of call. Once you have hired them as your Planner they will be able to show you a selection of venues that suit your style, introduce you too florists, photographers, beauticians, caterers etc.… They will supply you with all the information you will need for your wedding and it’s likely you will need less planning trips too, saving you money on extra flights and accommodation!

Take Good Care of Your Guests

Your nearest and dearest friends and family are more than happy to join your abroad for your wedding adventure, but don’t forget in your pre-wedding excitement that a destination wedding guests spend an average of £500 to £1,500 per person. There are a few things you can arrange to help with budgets and show them the huge appreciation you have for them joining you. Ask your wedding planner to research arranging group rates for flights and rooms, list information for getting to and from the nearest airport to your wedding venue. You could also deliver welcome gift bags to your guest’s rooms full of essentials for the holiday. Consider hosting an extra event, such as a welcome Bar B Q by the Pool, a next-day brunch or group trip to see some local interests. Some couples will forego a gift list for a destination wedding, understanding that the presence of the guests is a gift in itself!

The Legalities of getting Married Abroad

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Every destination has a different set of legalities for getting married abroad and the amount of time required to be in the country before you’re legally able to marry, ensure you are clear on what these are.  We would always recommend getting “officially” married in your country of residence prior to your wedding abroad and hire an Officient at your destination wedding to carryout a blessing ceremony for you. This will save you time, hassle and money. No one need know that your destination wedding is not the ‘Legal’ one; you can still exchange rings and vows with your loved ones around you. It will still feel like the real thing and I am more than sure you will still shed a tear!!

Consider a Wedding out of Season

If travelling abroad, why not consider your wedding a little earlier or later on in the year? The mid season falls directly before and after the High Season and could save you and your guest’s money. Seasonality affects the pricing of venues, flights and accommodation. Although you cannot 100% guarantee the weather will be perfect in the shoulder season, it should still be good in comparison to the UK!

Take Some Time and Space for You

Don’t lose sight of what you have come away to do, this is your wedding week and finding time for the two of you to be alone is really important! A destination wedding may mean your closest family and friends surround you for a week or more. Which is wonderful and fun, but it could also become tiring if you don’t take some time out for you. Ensure you and your new husband plan to enjoy each other’s company alone and take some honeymoon time in privacy.  Where possible ensure your accommodation is separate from the rest of the party, perhaps a room on a separate floor or even a private house or villa. Make this area out of bounds to the rest of the wedding party. Some of our Wedding Villas even have their own private terraces and swimming pools…you cant really get anymore romantic than that!

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Plan for the Weather

Yes, we understand that you are getting married abroad but please don’t get caught out! Coordinate with your wedding planner to formulate a bad weather plan, whether that’s moving the ceremony inside or providing every guest with an umbrella, a plan B is essential. In a hot climate it is also essential to consider the effects of the sun and heat. Ensure you provide enough shaded areas for people to relax and enjoy your wedding, provide plenty of water and refreshments to keep your guests well hydrated, ice lolly’s and pink lemonade should stop them over heating! Perhaps provide fans, hats, and parasols or construct shade sails around the venue.

Dress for Your Wedding Abroad

This really applies to both the Bride and groom and their Wedding Parties. You really must consider the potential weather when planning your wedding dress and deciding the wedding attire of your wedding party. In 35C heat, a heavy satin gown will become super hot and uncomfortable. Likewise black tuxedos for the groomsmen or even full dark suits with waistcoats would just be mean! If you’re exchanging vows outside, you may want to reconsider a long train that will easily get grass-stained or four-inch heels that will stick in the ground. The key really is to dress for the weather and the location.

Make a Holiday of it

This is a once in a lifetime experience, so make a holiday of it! With our wedding venues, many couples book for a week or more, inviting along all or most of their guests for this time. Turning a day of celebration into a weeklong holiday will more than likely suit everyone! Many of our clients choose to have two or three days of events. Making sure their wedding experience lasts for longer! And who can blame them! We usually organise for our clients a welcome dinner the night before the wedding, followed by the wedding day celebrations, the day after the wedding we will put on a Bar B Q and pool party or huge paella, perhaps with a DJ too. For those who are staying a little longer we often arrange trips and tours to local interests and sights, really making the most of their Wedding Holiday adventure!

Lucy Bennett- Wedding Planner & Designer 
March 7, 2014

Would You Enter Into A Prenup? And Why I Would Sign One

At the moment ‘Prenups’ are not legally binding in the UK. But this may all change as ministers are due to discuss the shake-up of divorce laws after a proposal is issued by the Law Commission later this month. The proposals are likely to suggest that a judge ‘considers’ pre-nuptial, post-nuptial and separation agreements when couples are divorcing. But with the average cost of drawing up a prenup being £750, would many couples be likely to add that into the cost of their wedding? Do you think a prenup undermines a marriage and trust?

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Personally I think it’s a sensible thing for you both to do as a couple. It protects both of you for the future and I look at it more of an insurance policy rather than a lack of trust. No one wants to think that their marriage isn’t going to last, but you can’t argue with statistics. You only have about a 5% chance of being burgled, but you still have home insurance to protect you in case it happens and if you add up your premiums over the years I bet it comes to more than £750. Yet about 42% of marriages end in divorce, so why would you not protect yourself with a prenup? Surly £750 is a small price to pay to make sure everything is settled fairly if the worse was to happen.

I think you are a lot more rational at the start of a relationship and are more likely to come to a fair agreement when deciding on a prenup than you are during a divorce. When you are in love, you want your partner to be happy. You are more likely to make balanced judgments when it comes to division of assets and what would happen with access to any children you might have. During a divorce, bitterness can creep in and you don’t want your ex to have anything from the house and children can be used as a weapon to hurt the other person. You can spend a small fortune on solicitors as you fight over the smallest things and the stress can be immense. By having a prenup in place, it could save you a lot of time, money and aggravation in the long run.

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So, would you sign a prenup??? You’re going to be married forever, so what do you have to lose???

 

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